We asked Caitlyn about her experience with abortion…

Q: What made you decide to get an abortion?

Cait:  I was a sophomore in college and in a very unhealthy relationship. My parents did not like or approve of my boyfriend.  We had been very off and on for 4 years.  When I found out I was pregnant, we were both scared of facing my family and the whole situation.  We never really discussed what we would do; he decided that we would have an abortion and I went along with that, due to fear of my parents, what people would think, and wanting to finish college.  I had no information or understanding about abortion at that time.  

Q: Did you have any side effects after the abortion?

Cait: Fortunately for me, I had no physical side effects. However, I suffered from emotional and spiritual side effects for years.  I felt very unworthy as a person and carried the guilt and shame of my choice with me.  I didn’t feel worthy of God’s love. Even though I knew he loved me, I didn’t think he liked me.  I tried to do things in church, subconsciously, to earn his approval, but it didn’t work.  It wasn’t until I went through the Forgiven and Set Free class that I understood God’s grace and forgiveness and love for me.   That I had always been forgiven and righteous in his sight because of Jesus.  I just needed to receive that and walk it out.  That changed my whole life.  

Q: What would you tell someone considering an abortion?

Cait:  First, I would tell them to not make a rash decision, but to gather as much information as they can about their pregnancy, their dating, and abortion procedures.  I would then tell them to pray about the decision they are making and to reach out to people who can offer wise council, such as a Pregnancy Resource Center, or their church if they attend one.  I would also recommend that they look at all their options and make sure they don’t make a decision based on fear or because they feel pressured.  Abortion is a decision that can’t be undone and it is something you carry with you the rest of your life.  

If you would like to discuss a past abortion, please call 704-983-2100. You can receive your free abortion recovery phone consultation. 

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